I Don’t Believe In “Love With Your Head Not Your Heart” – Elton

Relationships takes away every part of you, emotionally or physically.

It’s requires major attention and sacrifices however when all these selfless acts doesn’t yield the fruit it deserves, we break down as individuals.

Our world stops for a moment when that one person you so care about and love turn their backs at you irrespective of your sacrifices and affection.

This has damaged so many people that they turn to hold back even if they are in a relationship all in the name of “loving with your head not your heart”

We hold back on our true feelings from our partners.

We hold back on our experiences just because we are afraid.

It’s takes a lot to heal from a broken relationship that even as we enter into a new relationship we become too cautious and careful.

We tend to succumb to fear and suppress our emotions.

One thing we fail to see that Relationship is a whole package or pieces of puzzle put together that includes both negatives and positives acts.

There is a bit of love.
There is a bit of intimacy.
There is a bit of sacrifice.
There is a bit of commitment.
There is a bit of dependence.

These are just some of the positive things to expect however you should also know that there are also the opposite of the good things you should also expect.

There is a bit of betrayal.
There is a bit of hurt.
There is a bit of misunderstanding.
There is a bit of miscommunication.
There is a bit of selfishness.

It goes on and on. We should be able to expect all these and deal with them.

When we do, our expectations in relationship becomes more of realities than fantasies.

Expect Everything and use your thinking cap to suppress the negatives and by making the right decisions.

Anyone who holds back in relationship is more damaged emotionally and needs time to heal.
If you hold back, then you are not ready to be in any form of commitment.

It’s either in or out.

So instead of saying “Love with your head not your heart”, I will rather say “Love with your heart and use your head to make a realistic expectation”

By Elton Nana Amoah Jnr